Music for my funeral - lessons from Betty

I have been pondering what music would be appropriate for my funeral - when it comes!

It seems to me that there are two possible slots in the secular ceremony where I would like to have some music:

 

• In the middle of the funeral, an idea borrowed from our family friend Betty, when those present can think about the deceased.
• When the curtains close and the coffin is whisked away to the furnace.